u/Fresh_Speech3860

18F here My dad originally left my mom because he cheated and he got remarried to my stepmom who I’ve lived with now for the past year. So I’ve lived with my dad and stepmom and during that time about 4 months ago I saw he had a different lock screen while I ran into him out in the city. It was a woman. That night I went to see if my eyes had deceived me so I snuck into their room and found the phone and found he had spent $30,000+ on an only fans having an “affair” since he says they were boyfriend and girlfriend but sure whatever she’s getting paid. Besides the point. I show my stepmom the evidence and he kicks him out for a week and then he comes back. He comes back and a week later he asks to see the phone he runs locks himself in the bathroom and deletes everything. He gets kicked out for 2 weeks and then he comes back. 2 month goes by now and my stepmom asks to see his phone. He deleted everything saying there’s absolutely nothing there he just wanted to clear everything and we have nothing to worry about. I then login to the WiFi router and see his search history when he gets home the next day while I’m out and my stepmom is home. Onlyfans.com of course appears. I get home and my stepmom is extremely upset saying I have to stop doing this to her and some things are better not to know. Hes kicked out with most of his stuff gone and he’s apparently coming Sunday to get the rest. Am I the A hole?