u/FresitaDulce

I dropped the ball on Mother’s Day this year

I’m almost 36 weeks pregnant and to be quite honest, I’m fucking exhausted. Between working as a nurse, taking care of my toddler, and trying to get everything ready for the baby, I feel like I have nothing left in me.

I used to be the planner, the thoughtful one who organized everything. I just want to do nothing this year and I feel like an asshole :(

I got nothing for my mom. I got nothing for my mother in law, and if I don’t do it my husband won’t get it done. I made no plans to take them out or celebrate them. They’re both REALLY good to me and have been there for me during rough parts of my pregnancy.

I know it’s Saturday and there’s still time but how bad is it that I’m just so tired and want to do absolutely nothing for them tomorrow? Both moms have 2 other daughters who I know will do a good job of celebrating them, so they aren’t missing out. But I know I’m still an asshole for doing absolutely nothing.

I just want to relax tomorrow, and that won’t happen either but I don’t even want to visit anyone. I want to stay home and not go to multiple houses. I already told my family I’m staying home and my husband told his family we wouldn’t be attending Mother’s Day dinner.

Please tell me a text message is sufficient for tomorrow, because I really don’t want to do anything else.

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u/FresitaDulce — 14 days ago