u/FreudWouldCry

Was this a normal response/is saying a famous person is attractive "bad"

So my bf (27) and I (28) were watching a celebrity interview on YouTube. The celeb said something about having children and i was like "whattt i didnt know they had kids, did you?" and he got very sassy and said "how the fuck would i know that" which kinda threw me off (was that some weird thing to say? i said it in a surprised way/not literally asking if that makes sense) so i was like "oh sorry i thought you liked that person, i just didnt know that" and he got very defensive and said "what do you mean i like them?" and i responded "i thought they were one of your favorite actresses or a celeb crush" and he got even more upset and said "i dont have a celebrity crush. ive never said that" (is having one bad like is saying a celebrity is attractive bad bc i didnt think so... which is also confusing bc weve clearly had this conversation before and it was no problem???) so i said "oh ok i guess i remembered wrong but wait really no celebrity crush?? theres not a single famous person you think is attractive?" and he said "no i literally couldnt name one" and turned away. So I asked what happened, and he said it's annoying how I ask things, that if he says he never said something, then he never said it, that what he's saying right now is fact, and to move on (???? idk). soooo 1. How did this conversation turn into bickering, and over what? 2. What did I do or what could I be doing that's annoying/wrong? 3. Is it some bad thing to (I guess now) say that a famous person is attractive? (Also, lately, anytime this tone of conversation comes up and he gets defensive, I end up being called annoying, and he will mock how I speak when I'm speaking normally.) I feel like I've been quieter and not saying much to avoid annoying him, but yeah, that just happened, so here I am, word-vomiting. Sorry if that was too long, these random conversations happen, and I'm just trying to figure out where it goes wrong/what I am doing, so this is the most specific convo I could give as an example because it literally just happened.

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u/FreudWouldCry — 1 day ago