▲ 3 r/vaginismus
okay sooooo i may have hooked up with this guy recently (til 3rd base) and i basically was like oh i don’t wanna go all the way rn, which he was cool with. but now im like shit i don’t wanna have to explain myself the next time i see him. i’ve been in pt and part of me wants to just avoid the convo and see if stuff works lol but im nervous that he would be able to tell something is “wrong” or “different” even if i don’t bring it up. from the guys perspective umm can you tell/does it hurt? would he maybe think im just not into it? idk i had an ex and i tried to ask him these things but he dodged the questions. help a girl out😭
u/FriendHealthy — 18 days ago