u/Friendly-Trade1381

Basically the title, my (26F) Bf (31m) is just constantly irritating. He talks during my shows & speaks with the subtitles, acting like he knew what they were gonna say anyways, he alwayssssss has to be touching me and if we go more than 2 days not seeing each other it’s so much worse, I feel like I have a clingy toddler. He “dislikes” me drinking but we met cause he was a bouncer at the club I was going to (2yrs ago) He askes to come over every day and it actually makes me wanna throw up, my alone time is precious & I was upfront ab that. When we do spend time together it’s just him falling asleep in my bed taking up all the space/blanket & making far to many noises. (I send him links to things I wanna do all the time he just won’t actually plan anything) I’m just genuinely so f*cking irritated even being around him. But he had a very traumatic last breakup and 2 recent family losses. As well as telling me for a year “it’s gonna get better” so I feel like he’s only seeing the logistics side which I actually do not care one lick about.
Ig what I want is advice on how to break up the least messy/hurtful way possible