AIO or was I right to cut off my mother?
TRIGGER WARNING: sexual abuse, child neglect
my mother is with a guy for decades who had sexually abused me many times when she was away to work.
my brother did the same to me many times. yes my own brother.
i was afraid to be homeless or not being able to make my future at my grandparents’ place as they are very orthodox so i didn’t speak up until i was in college.
she didn’t believe me at first and then claimed she had a private talk with them and they later apologised to me and that i don’t remember as this was three years ago. ok maybe i don’t remember, but still i shouldn’t be forced to talk to my abusers as if everything is normal now that they said “sorry”.
whenever i brought this up in the recent past she said let’s talk together and sort this.
why do i have to talk to my abusers just to prove smth to her?
she says i love you to my abusers and still goes on with her life.
when i finally left the country, i had my own agency to draw the line and cut her off she started blaming me by saying bullshit in the screenshot.
i blocked her.
then she contacted my fiancé saying i haven’t been talking to her. he said yes she’s very upset about the past.
translation: she’s accusing me of cutting off now because i don’t need her anymore and i did before as i needed her money for school and leaving the country and a house to stay in. she’s literally my parent and i was a minor with no job to get out. and that i’ve been brainwashed by white culture to be behaving like this (im asian and my fiancé is white and we both live in his country.)