u/FriesWT

Persons dumped by an avoidant and in NC did they ever break NC?

I’m coming up on a month now of my gf of 2 and 1/2 years dumping me and going full NC. I can’t forget her, all the memories are stuck with me and I’m stuck seeing her shadow everywhere. We used to go everywhere together, she was with me damn near 24/7. Then one day she comes up to me straight faced and tells me she wants to break up. No explanation, no emotion, just that she doesn’t want me anymore. After that she went full NC can’t even contact her through mutuals. I also found out she moved back in with her parents in another state. I just wanna know, do I have any hope that she’ll break NC? I’m stuck waiting hoping that she contacts me. She left me at rock bottom with only her to think about, now I spend my days staring at a screen and thinking why.

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u/FriesWT — 7 days ago

Need advice on what to do

After two and a half years she broke it off without an explanation and went full no contact. I poured everything I had into this relationship (heart, health, time, money). I did everything I knew possible to keep her happy and keep the relationship going but after a night with her supposedly toxic mother she went dead cold, no emotions. Now she’s moved back with her parents in a different state and I have not way of contacting her. I’ve been waiting and working on myself but I can’t shake her from my mind. What am I supposed to do? How would I begin to move on?

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u/FriesWT — 10 days ago