AITBF for being upset one of my best friends keeps cancelling plans to hang out but they still manage to hang out with other people?
I have a really good friend who I text every day with another good friend and we have planned at least 5 times now to meet up but she keeps cancelling a day or two before the plans because she saws she too stressed and has too much planned. I feel bad for being upset because I understand how it feels to feel overwhelmed by commitments but she always makes sure to go to certain events with random people she hardly knows every week and yet I haven’t seen her properly in over a month. It feels like these events are always a priority and it’s not like something I can go with her too for many reasons. She cancelled onetime we were going to a concert the night before saying she is too stressed to go when she seemed willing and excited about it for the days leading up to it, then I had to force her to go to a party with me, and she hardly hung out with me the whole time. Then she even asked to meet up with me while I was at uni only to not confirm her plans the day of and I had to decide whether to wait in the city for her or go home because she hadn’t texted me back. And just now she is trying to cancel big plans me her and three others have been trying to plan for almost a month now because she’s stressed but is still going to a concert she paid for. I understand her reasons but I can’t help but feel a little unimportant even though I know we are close. I just needed to vent!!