Second baby room setup with a toddler — what actually worked in your house? + safe daytime spots for baby?
Hi all,
Trying to work out room setups for baby #2 with a toddler (~2yo) already at home.
We have:
- one bedroom right next to ours
- another bedroom on the other side of the house (~5–7m away)
Initially thought newborn would get the closer room, but now wondering if it actually makes more sense for the toddler to stay there and put the newborn in the further room with the overnight feeding setup (kettle, formula, mini fridge etc).
My thinking is:
- toddler sleep might be harder to recover once disrupted
- overnight feeds already involve noise/lights anyway
- if baby is already awake crying, maybe making bottles in that room matters less than potentially waking the toddler
But did anyone feel anxious having the newborn not right next door?
Would love to know:
- who got the room closest to you in your house — toddler or newborn?
- anything you’d do differently?
Also during the day… where do people safely put the second baby away from an enthusiastic toddler? 😅
For tummy time/floor play/general existing:
- playpen?
- babywearing?
- separate room?
- just supervision?
Would love practical real-life setups!