Should I lose my virginity to a tinder hookup?
I’m a virgin (20F) and I’ve been talking to/hanging out with a guy from Tinder. We’ve already done some stuff together and I felt really comfortable with him,
he fingered me before and it was honestly a really good experience. He wanted to go further but I told him I wanted to think about it first.
The thing is, I actually do want to have sex with him, but I’m scared I’ll regret losing my virginity in a Tinder hookup situation or that it’ll somehow “ruin” my first time. I’m pretty sex positive and I don’t personally think virginity is some sacred thing, but I still feel weirdly emotional about it being my first time.
Another thing is he doesn’t know I’m a virgin. The last time I told a guy, he ghosted me afterward, so now I’m nervous to bring it up.
People who lost their virginity in a casual-ish situation: did you regret it? And do you think I should tell him beforehand?