My (30f) husband (m30) said the only way he ever sees us separating and him leaving is if I die. Specifically, he said by hands. What am I even supposed to do?
We have been having problems for so long. I've asked him to leave so many times, everything is in my name and always has been so I never felt like I could be the one to leave. He never does. Its been years. I have even tried to make it work and try to be happy but he always makes me feel like a fool for trying and it just starts again.
I have tried to separate bedrooms for years and feel like I may finally be able to do that. He then just made this statement to me " I just cant help but feel like separating bedrooms will mean I will have to leave. The only way I see me leaving is if you kill me"
u/Front-Fig-9774 — 14 hours ago