Am I the a***hole
. I am 19 years old and I was seeing this guy who was 26 and lived about 30 minutes from me and we would see each other all the time. I slowly started to notice that his affection in this talking stage was becoming forced
Mind you we would see each other ever week for a couple of days. He would be affectionate, polite to my mother, he was very old school. I absolutely adored him. The third month of this, he started to get distant, didn’t text me as much, and chose to spend time with his friends more and more. I didn’t mind it at first because that was his life and I wasn’t going to be that needy type of girl
Now, a few times he sent me videos because I asked how he was doing and he was js having fun with his friends but I noticed a specific girl always touching him. I noticed this a few times and finally asked him about it and he said “she’s just like that with everyone” Mind you he never wanted me to meet his friends when I was fine with him meeting mine which was odd. He also said she was flirty with everyone and completely defended her.
Over to the fourth month (ish) this behavior continued. Then I told him I missed him and he said “well I said that’s how it was going to be” and then I said “is that supposed to mean something” he responded with “do you want it to mean something?” I could sense the attitude through the text. Then I asked what was wrong and he said “well you know gas prices are high” and I said “I’m willing to pay for that” (I didn’t even have a job mind you but I had money) then he said “It’s to exhausting“
I responded with, “ You know maybe you should have figured that out before all of this. If it's to exhausting for you then im not going to continue with someone who is thinking like that when they are acting like my boyfriend. Thats just leading me on. I'm sorry tee. I'm ok with being friends on a respectful note but not like how we were before if that's where this is” All he said back was OKAY.
Am I the asshole for saying this