I think me and my mate smoking is having an adverse affect on his relationship and I don’t know how to approach it
My buddy and I smoke weed occasionally, not the healthiest habit but also not the worst.
He and his long-term partner have a house together. Every so often they’ll host a social gathering with a few mates, we’ll have a few beers and every so often I’ll crash at his and then we’ll smoke afterwards. The other night it was just the three of us left over and she (rightly) assumed we’d have a smoke.
My mate had told his partner the other night that he had no weed, despite him having collected some earlier that evening and it’s now come to light that he indeed had. She’s cool with him/us smoking but as you’d expect she’s not cool with the lying.
I love my buddy and his girlfriend to bits, they are great for each other and I feel like I’m inadvertently putting him in the shit on this by staying over and having a smoke. I’ve told him to be straight up with her on this, is there anything more than I could do?
I like weed as much as the next man but the guilt would eat me up if their relationship detonated over this. I’d happily give up the social smoke for it.