u/Full-Assumption7907

I’ve never been on T but due to my short hair and being in a liberal city people assume I’m nonbinary or a trans man, so I get my pronouns asked a lot. I’m 100% supportive of trans people and recognize that having these conversations normalized are a lifesaver to a lot of people, however for me personally, I hate being asked. It seems like a subtle way of saying “hey I don’t know what the fuck you are” or “you look super weird and unusual”. I’ve started experimenting with more feminine clothes and makeup after 10 years of living as the opposite sex just so I would never have to hear this question again.

I’ve identified as male since I was 14, and before then I was always kind of masculine. Now 10 years later I’m trying to be more like my sex, but I feel like I’m bad at female socialization, or things like styling my hair or clothing. Where do I learn this stuff? Anyone else feel this way?