u/Full-Department-358

Spent 60k on coaching and still felt completely lost. Anyone else?

Not writing this to bash any institute. Just being honest about something I don't see people talk about enough.

Joined a coaching institute thinking it would solve the "I don't know where to start" problem. It didn't. The classes were fine but they were designed for the average student, not for where I specifically was. My weak areas got the same attention as my strong ones. The study plan was the same for everyone in the batch.

The irony is I came out knowing more concepts but feeling more confused about strategy than before. Like I had more information but less clarity.

The thing nobody tells you before joining coaching — it gives you content, not direction. Those are two very different things.

Has anyone else felt this gap? Like you had all the resources but still didn't know exactly what to do with them?

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u/Full-Department-358 — 6 days ago

Spent 60k on coaching and still felt completely lost. Anyone else?

Not writing this to bash any institute. Just being honest about something I don't see people talk about enough.

Joined a coaching institute thinking it would solve the "I don't know where to start" problem. It didn't. The classes were fine but they were designed for the average student, not for where I specifically was. My weak areas got the same attention as my strong ones. The study plan was the same for everyone in the batch.

The irony is I came out knowing more concepts but feeling more confused about strategy than before. Like I had more information but less clarity.

The thing nobody tells you before joining coaching — it gives you content, not direction. Those are two very different things.

Has anyone else felt this gap? Like you had all the resources but still didn't know exactly what to do with them?

reddit.com
u/Full-Department-358 — 6 days ago

Spent 60k on coaching and still felt completely lost. Anyone else?

Not writing this to bash any institute. Just being honest about something I don't see people talk about enough.

Joined a coaching institute thinking it would solve the "I don't know where to start" problem. It didn't. The classes were fine but they were designed for the average student, not for where I specifically was. My weak areas got the same attention as my strong ones. The study plan was the same for everyone in the batch.

The irony is I came out knowing more concepts but feeling more confused about strategy than before. Like I had more information but less clarity.

The thing nobody tells you before joining coaching — it gives you content, not direction. Those are two very different things.

Has anyone else felt this gap? Like you had all the resources but still didn't know exactly what to do with them?

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u/Full-Department-358 — 6 days ago

VARC broke my confidence completely. Anyone else?

I come from a commerce background. Numbers were always my comfort zone. So going into CAT I assumed VARC would be manageable and QA would be my challenge.

Complete opposite happened.

VARC just destroyed me. Not because I can't read — I can. But the RC passages in CAT are a different beast. Dense, abstract, philosophical sometimes. And the questions are designed to trick you even when you understood the passage.

First attempt I used to skip RC sets and focus on VA. That backfired badly.

Second attempt I tried to read The Hindu every day. Helped a little but not enough.

What I think was actually missing — someone to tell me how to read for CAT specifically. Not just read more, but how to approach a passage, where to spend time, when to let go of a question. That tactical layer I never got properly.

Still figuring out the right approach honestly.

For people who improved their VARC significantly — what actually moved the needle for you? Not general advice, something specific that changed how you approached it.

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u/Full-Department-358 — 9 days ago

VARC broke my confidence completely. Anyone else?

I come from a commerce background. Numbers were always my comfort zone. So going into CAT I assumed VARC would be manageable and QA would be my challenge.

Complete opposite happened.

VARC just destroyed me. Not because I can't read — I can. But the RC passages in CAT are a different beast. Dense, abstract, philosophical sometimes. And the questions are designed to trick you even when you understood the passage.

First attempt I used to skip RC sets and focus on VA. That backfired badly.

Second attempt I tried to read The Hindu every day. Helped a little but not enough.

What I think was actually missing — someone to tell me how to read for CAT specifically. Not just read more, but how to approach a passage, where to spend time, when to let go of a question. That tactical layer I never got properly.

Still figuring out the right approach honestly.

For people who improved their VARC significantly — what actually moved the needle for you? Not general advice, something specific that changed how you approached it.

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u/Full-Department-358 — 9 days ago

VARC broke my confidence completely. Anyone else?

I come from a commerce background. Numbers were always my comfort zone. So going into CAT I assumed VARC would be manageable and QA would be my challenge.

Complete opposite happened.

VARC just destroyed me. Not because I can't read — I can. But the RC passages in CAT are a different beast. Dense, abstract, philosophical sometimes. And the questions are designed to trick you even when you understood the passage.

First attempt I used to skip RC sets and focus on VA. That backfired badly.

Second attempt I tried to read The Hindu every day. Helped a little but not enough.

What I think was actually missing — someone to tell me how to read for CAT specifically. Not just read more, but how to approach a passage, where to spend time, when to let go of a question. That tactical layer I never got properly.

Still figuring out the right approach honestly.

For people who improved their VARC significantly — what actually moved the needle for you? Not general advice, something specific that changed how you approached it.

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u/Full-Department-358 — 9 days ago

VARC broke my confidence completely. Anyone else?

I come from a commerce background. Numbers were always my comfort zone. So going into CAT I assumed VARC would be manageable and QA would be my challenge.

Complete opposite happened.

VARC just destroyed me. Not because I can't read — I can. But the RC passages in CAT are a different beast. Dense, abstract, philosophical sometimes. And the questions are designed to trick you even when you understood the passage.

First attempt I used to skip RC sets and focus on VA. That backfired badly.

Second attempt I tried to read The Hindu every day. Helped a little but not enough.

What I think was actually missing — someone to tell me how to read for CAT specifically. Not just read more, but how to approach a passage, where to spend time, when to let go of a question. That tactical layer I never got properly.

Still figuring out the right approach honestly.

For people who improved their VARC significantly — what actually moved the needle for you? Not general advice, something specific that changed how you approached it.

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u/Full-Department-358 — 9 days ago

VARC broke my confidence completely. Anyone else?

I come from a commerce background. Numbers were always my comfort zone. So going into CAT I assumed VARC would be manageable and QA would be my challenge.

Complete opposite happened.

VARC just destroyed me. Not because I can't read — I can. But the RC passages in CAT are a different beast. Dense, abstract, philosophical sometimes. And the questions are designed to trick you even when you understood the passage.

First attempt I used to skip RC sets and focus on VA. That backfired badly.

Second attempt I tried to read The Hindu every day. Helped a little but not enough.

What I think was actually missing — someone to tell me how to read for CAT specifically. Not just read more, but how to approach a passage, where to spend time, when to let go of a question. That tactical layer I never got properly.

Still figuring out the right approach honestly.

For people who improved their VARC significantly — what actually moved the needle for you? Not general advice, something specific that changed how you approached it.

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u/Full-Department-358 — 9 days ago

Can we talk about how mentally exhausting CAT prep actually is?

Not the syllabus. Not the mocks. Just the mental side of it.

The part where you get a bad mock score and suddenly question every decision you've made in the last 6 months. The part where your friends are getting placed, getting salaries, moving forward — and you're sitting at home doing RC passages at 11pm wondering if this is even worth it.

The part where your parents are supportive but you can see the worry behind their eyes. And that somehow makes it worse.

I went through two attempts carrying all of this and I don't think I ever really processed it properly. Just kept pushing and hoping the result would make it all make sense.

It's a lonely process in a way that's hard to explain to someone who hasn't done it.

Anyone else feel this way? How did you deal with it — not the prep strategy, just the mental weight of the whole thing?

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u/Full-Department-358 — 10 days ago

Can we talk about how mentally exhausting CAT prep actually is?

Not the syllabus. Not the mocks. Just the mental side of it.

The part where you get a bad mock score and suddenly question every decision you've made in the last 6 months. The part where your friends are getting placed, getting salaries, moving forward — and you're sitting at home doing RC passages at 11pm wondering if this is even worth it.

The part where your parents are supportive but you can see the worry behind their eyes. And that somehow makes it worse.

I went through two attempts carrying all of this and I don't think I ever really processed it properly. Just kept pushing and hoping the result would make it all make sense.

It's a lonely process in a way that's hard to explain to someone who hasn't done it.

Anyone else feel this way? How did you deal with it — not the prep strategy, just the mental weight of the whole thing?

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u/Full-Department-358 — 10 days ago

Can we talk about how mentally exhausting CAT prep actually is?

Not the syllabus. Not the mocks. Just the mental side of it.

The part where you get a bad mock score and suddenly question every decision you've made in the last 6 months. The part where your friends are getting placed, getting salaries, moving forward — and you're sitting at home doing RC passages at 11pm wondering if this is even worth it.

The part where your parents are supportive but you can see the worry behind their eyes. And that somehow makes it worse.

I went through two attempts carrying all of this and I don't think I ever really processed it properly. Just kept pushing and hoping the result would make it all make sense.

It's a lonely process in a way that's hard to explain to someone who hasn't done it.

Anyone else feel this way? How did you deal with it — not the prep strategy, just the mental weight of the whole thing?

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u/Full-Department-358 — 10 days ago

Can we talk about how mentally exhausting CAT prep actually is?

Not the syllabus. Not the mocks. Just the mental side of it.

The part where you get a bad mock score and suddenly question every decision you've made in the last 6 months. The part where your friends are getting placed, getting salaries, moving forward — and you're sitting at home doing RC passages at 11pm wondering if this is even worth it.

The part where your parents are supportive but you can see the worry behind their eyes. And that somehow makes it worse.

I went through two attempts carrying all of this and I don't think I ever really processed it properly. Just kept pushing and hoping the result would make it all make sense.

It's a lonely process in a way that's hard to explain to someone who hasn't done it.

Anyone else feel this way? How did you deal with it — not the prep strategy, just the mental weight of the whole thing?

reddit.com
u/Full-Department-358 — 10 days ago

Can we talk about how mentally exhausting CAT prep actually is?

Not the syllabus. Not the mocks. Just the mental side of it.

The part where you get a bad mock score and suddenly question every decision you've made in the last 6 months. The part where your friends are getting placed, getting salaries, moving forward — and you're sitting at home doing RC passages at 11pm wondering if this is even worth it.

The part where your parents are supportive but you can see the worry behind their eyes. And that somehow makes it worse.

I went through two attempts carrying all of this and I don't think I ever really processed it properly. Just kept pushing and hoping the result would make it all make sense.

It's a lonely process in a way that's hard to explain to someone who hasn't done it.

Anyone else feel this way? How did you deal with it — not the prep strategy, just the mental weight of the whole thing?

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u/Full-Department-358 — 10 days ago