bf taking too long to cum
Hello, me 19F and my bf 19M have started our sex life not too long ago. He takes pretty much time to cum (40+ mins) and he says thats because sometimes he can barely feel anything through a condom. more than that, he eventually becomes soft too during piv (still saying that he basically stops feeling things)
context: he s done raw sex his whole life but i set the boundary of using a condom. he respected that and we have tried all types of thin condoms, realizing that the best ones r the trojan raw(he said he feels almost everything). he hasnt been in a relationship/hasnt had sex for the past 3 years and so he confessed that he used to masturbate and to watch porn to cope w that (without being addicted). he said that since he met me he stopped watching porn and even stopped masturbating. we ve been long distance for a month and after he came back he came in around 10 mins (which i think is amazing) everytime we had sex. today tho.. he became soft again and couldnt cum saying "i always get so close and then all of a sudden i just stop feeling" and he said that today s issue mightve been the fact that he was too hot (genuinely sweating too much), thats he felt like peeing and that his stomach was too full. (after a break he became hard again and again)
i talked to him about this issue and even asked him if im doing something that might be turning him off. he was very nice and told me that he doesnt care about cumming , he cares about making love to me, making me finish as many times as possible and that i should stop seeing sex as a performance. also said that he is not turned off by me, i could just hug him and he d be hard.
what do u guys think? what can we do?