u/Full_of_ques

What is talking romantically? M26 here new to a relationship with F26.

To give you guys a short summary, My friend set me up with a girl he knows and on the first date we kind of hit it off as friends, most of our conversation was mostly trivial like favourites and interest so on. We started hanging out often and a month in we said we love each other. But here is the thing i know she wants me to talk to her romantically but i have never in my 26 years been in a relationship, i was mostly focused on games, movies, animes, series (all the nerd/dork stuff) so i put myself down and never really tried for any girl. That being said i have literally 0 knowledge on how to talk romantically or even flirt for that matter, cause my brain thought of those as cringe stuff and automatically suppressed it thinking it was useless and now when i need it, it's nowhere to be found.

FYI. When we do meet and like in the car we hug it out, exchange kisses but still she has mentioned that i dont 'talk romantically or even flirt and that 's like a step that i am ignoring and going on to the physical part'. I am an introvert and my conversation skills are quite limited to all my interest said before. So please guide me on where or how to start, i know i love her and I don't want to miss her or this amazing chance in life.

Any advice is welcomed 😀

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u/Full_of_ques — 5 days ago