u/Fun-Contribution8900

This woman exclusively dates married men and can’t imagine why she might have a following of women that hate her and thinks she’s a classless, emotionally stunted, traitor to her sex. Let me help her out.

Your services as an unpaid whore to married men help to create a misogynistic, handmaid tale situation where married men exploit their wives for breeding, childbearing, housework, and emotional labor/managing the mental load. Your “partner’s” wife is at home using all her resources to maintain the home, care for this man’s children, and secure their future, while he’s out betraying the family and spending family time, energy, and resources on you.

You claim he’s not having sex with his wife, but have previously stated you only date married men who are not in dead bedrooms, so which is it?

If he was such a devoted dad, he wouldn’t be risking destroying his family should his infidelity come to light. Causing psychological damage to his young children’s mother is not being a good father, nor is setting up his children for lifelong difficulty with romantic relationships—which is likely to happen if they experience their nuclear family and their mother destroyed by their dad’s adultery.

Sorry you went through a divorce and can’t figure out how to have an ethical relationship that honors the supposed limitations you have in regards to having a traditional relationship. Im sure there are no other single dads, divorced dads, or other single men in the world that would be open to what you’re looking for.
You just have to make sure there is an unsuspecting wife in your “relationships” being betrayed and exploited for her resources so you can enjoy the fun, light, carefree NRE romantic moments with her husband. Fine for her to clean his house, cook his food, and do his laundry so you don’t have to right?

Your “partner’s” relationship with his wife is unlikely to successfully recover from the trials of back to back childbirth and raising young children while you’re inserting yourself into their relationship.

You’re feckless, a traitor to women, and annoyingly smug and condescending. So that’s probably why people downvote you and why people like me are more than happy to see betrayed wives throw the OW under the bus on DDay. You will absolutely deserve anything that comes back your way!

-Sincerely a regular spouse, not betrayed spouse. Just a regular woman that can’t stand your mental gymnastics and disgusting, misogynistic behavior.

I would bet all my chips that this terrible “bad news” is that his wife is pregnant. However his wife feels about the pregnancy, whether it was planned or not, I’m sure she’d be elated to learn that her husband’s reaction is to come to Reddit to cry about losing his true love/affair partner (who he has been with less than 2 months based on his posting history) and to basically say he really never truly loved his wife.

He describes himself as being in hell, while the woman who committed her life to him is sitting at home gestating his child. He’s hoping maybe his affair partner comes back eventually, either during the pregnancy or maybe soon after—when his wife stops bleeding postpartum or maybe when she’s done lactating—who knows! Hopefully soon though! 🙃

These are the bastions of human decency hanging out over there. 🤮

The context of this post is an other woman lamenting about how she wants a legit relationship with her married man and asking commenters to talk some sense into her.

So many of these cheating women were first betrayed wives. I just can’t for the life of me understand how you decide that you’re so devastated and broken from your husband cheating on you that you should fall in love with another married man behaving the same way towards his own wife? You lost all respect and love for your husband because of his lying and cheating, but you love this liar and cheater? It makes no sense, and it’s particularly heinous to know how painful and life changing the betrayal is and still help inflict it on some other poor woman.

This cheater wants support from other cheaters about how to cope with his single mistress cheating on him! 🤡 These types of posts and/or comments aren’t even a little bit rare over there. Absolute clown world.

Both of these ADMITTED ADULTERERS are breaking down the moral failings of people who ghost each other in adulterous relationships. I love when they break down ethics and character for us all. Nothing funnier than people who lack any ability to self reflect! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤡

“Welp. I helped a man break up his family and then dumped him and now my life is going great!” I hope every married man reads her “success story” and sees what’s waiting for him at the end of his special affair!

The irony is this woman’s behavior is why most of the other women on that sub will always be the other woman. Men see this as a very possible/likely outcome. It wasn’t fun for her anymore once he wasn’t married and now he has no one—and he deserves that.

Is it normal for a man to leave his postpartum wife alone all day with a baby, possibly multiple other children, and all the responsibilities of home while he lays in bed with me and does nothing but have sex?

So weird that he doesn’t have that in his marriage. I can’t believe his wife can’t find the time to stay in bed all day doing nothing but being a free use unpaid whore. So weird.

I bet it is hard to give up a man of that caliber. I can see wanting such a good man as your legit long term partner—leaving for an entire day each week to cheat on you while you manage everything else!

JFC 🤦🏻‍♀️