Painful first time
My boyfriend and I (both 18, together 5 years) just tried to have sex for the first time today and it did not go well. We have been "sexually active" for around 4 and a half years, (oral sex, touching etc) so we are super comfortable with eachother.
First of all, im not sure if the condom we used even fit him, it looked super tight. But while we were buying them, there were no sizes listed🤷♀️🤷♀️ he said it didn't feel super tight but it looked uncomfortable, it also wasn't even long enough.
We did abt 20 minutes of foreplay (oral/touching) and we first tried with me on top, which didn't go far at all. I told him I thought It was because I was super tense so we decided to try missionary. He managed to get the head in but I was in so much pain to the point of tears. He told me we should stop because my mascara was literally running down my face😭
Every 30 or so seconds I would take it out to give myself a breather and put a finger in, but even that was hurting me, I felt sore down there for a couple hours after and he only got maybe half an inch inside. I dont know what to do to make our next try easier!!😭😭 HELP!