My Dad 60M is kinda a predator and my family is acting like it isn’t their problem.
Throw away account for obvious reasons. So my dad 60M and my mom got a divorce around 3 years ago. Nothing big they just mutually felt like they feel out of love. My dad got straight into dating. After 19 years of marriage. My family thought it was off but we didn’t really care. That’s when my dad started talking about this girl Jessica. Jessica is not from where we live and apparently they met at a bar in another country. They ended up “dating” meaning texting a lot and going on vacations together. He also had another girl Sandy who he was seeing, who lived here. My dad saw sandy often and my dad specifically said that they weren’t exclusive to both girls. My dad ended up going on another vacation with Jessica and told Sandy about it. Sandy got mad and kinda dumped him? I am not sure. Jessica ended up wanting more and they ended up not working. Anyway that was his thing. He would go on vacations with these women and would have sex with them and come back acting like everything is normal. Most of these girls are not from where we are from. Anyway, this isn’t the biggest problem believe it or not. It’s the fact that these girls are young… not like 18 or under age at least I think. But Jessica was 27 and Sandy was 35. And my siblings and I found out of on “his girls” was 23. Keep in mind he is 60 years old… and my oldest sister is 26 years old. I find this really creepy and so does the rest of my family. But that’s all. We don’t do anything about it. My mom just said to my dad to stop telling us about them. I feel like this I really inappropriate, and whenever I try to voice these things to him he asks me if a 27 year old can think for themselves. Or that the 23 year old has two kids so she is mature… I think this is weird. He does support my family and I financially and is very nice. He isn’t a good dad but we still love him. It’s a hard situation for us as I just don’t know what to do anymore and we can’t cut him off as he is our financial support and he is in a big portion of our lives. I truly can’t imagine my life without my dad and I do love him but he is really really weird with these girls. What do I do? I am 15F and my dad would not take me seriously as I am a teenager. Any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated. Please be nice in the comments.
Edit: He does print pictures of these women and hang them up almost like trophies. My mom is printed even 3 years after the divorce too which makes it even weirder. He is also a diagnosed narcissist and sex addict. I think predator might be too extreme but I just think it’s a bit creepy.