Husband wants to be a dom with other subs without me.
My husband of 20+ years and I have evolved into a dom/sub dynamic that we really enjoy. Even prior to our new kink life we had always talked about having a threesome mainly with another woman. While looking for someone to fulfill our fantasy and their desires he found a woman who wants to have a dom/sub dynamic without me being involved.
I have never been the jealous wife or not trust my husband. Always felt progressive about our relationship in all evolutions. This situation has me spiraling. I trust my dom but feel like I can’t trust the other sub. I also don’t want to have feelings of resentment or that Im not enough. My dom hasn’t had many experiences with other women and I would like to give him those opportunities, I just always imagined I would be involved. There is a plan for them to meet and I said yes. How do I work through the emotions Im having?