How can I continue Reaping from my white knight ex?
My ex ruined us by white knighting his heart and time and money and energy to his ex. Now he's my ex.. I dumped him 3 weeks ago ..my tire was completely flat yesterday, a guy helped blow it up but useless...I reluctantly asked my ex if he could help me...he put my donut on my car while pouring sweat in this heatwave, took my rim and got me a new tire ..I felt so thankful but still hate him... I realized he is a white knight. Crossed all my boundaries. So how can I take advantage? It's not evil. He would be fulfilling something in him, while helping me without me having to feel cheated on since I'm remaining his ex. I need more ideas. I don't like being needy. I'm very independent...which basically was a punishment for me...so how can I pretend to be damsel in distress and get something out of this heartbreak?