Idk what to do
Am 20m and she’s 19f we’ve been dating about two years and a lot happened over the last 3 to 4 months. It’s not completely her fault I was emotionally distance. I was mean hateful to the world and I let that spread to her but recently she’s been lying to my face about what she’s doing she sneaks out at night and goes to party and drinks and gets house is shot up but this morning she called me and I was told she got raped because she got so drunk and I was praying that she wouldn’t remember, but she remembers a good bit of it in our relationship was already I feel like crumbling because she would rather go out and drink with her friends and party then try to fix things and now this information it’s it’s not me. It’s her. She’s gonna try to bury it and pretend like it never happened and I don’t want that for her and now all of a sudden she has all these random friends. I’ve never heard of the lying for months. What am I supposed to do? I wanna be here for her and right now I got three options. I can go hurt him. I can be here for her or I can just completely disappear, but I care for her and no matter what I want her to be OK so I come on here just asking for a little bit of advice