Am I overreacting after this first date?
I (26F) went on a first date with this guy (26M). The date itself was fine, but a couple red flags. He kept insisting on coming to my apartment which I declined. He kept making up excuses like having to go to the bathroom. I eventually gave him and let him come upstairs. Well in my apartment, we started making out and he removed my shirt. He then tried to take a picture of me. I had to physically fight my way out of the picture. I told him that I didn’t like that, and he apologized and seemed really upset about it.
The next day he told me he was hanging out with a coworker. he said that it was a female, but it was just a professional relationship and I had nothing to worry about. You can see in the texts that I was clear that we just had a first date and it would be unreasonable for me to be upset.
He then does not text me that whole evening and barely the next day. Until 10 o’clock at night, he text me and adds that he kissed her. I was more upset about the fact that he reassured me multiple times just to do the opposite. He then continue to say that he can’t promise he won’t do it again.
I can’t tell if I’m overreacting because it was just a first date. Am i overreacting ?