Not reading ToG or CC

Even if these new acotar books have some crossover or easter eggs from the other two series, I just don’t care. I can use context clues to understand what’s going on. I can also google it. I doubt the crossover will be that intense.

reddit.com
u/Funny-Lynx-5105 — 19 hours ago

Having a low tolerance for spicy food is annoying.

This may just be because I’m a Louisiana girl but I see these seafood boils on social media with no seasoning and I know it’s because someone was like “don’t make it spicy I don’t like spice wahwahwah” and it’s like grow up bro. I didn’t like spicy foods when I was 5 and then I grew up. Don’t ruin the seafood boil for everyone else with you weeny taste buds. This is not that deep but I do find it annoying and childish. I’m not talking about eating straight jalapeno peppers off the vine but maybe try some buffalo sauce and don’t act like a baby. Am I alone in this?

reddit.com
u/Funny-Lynx-5105 — 1 month ago

Any advice on managing multifaceted pelvic pain?

I have been having pain with sex that has gotten worse in the past two years. It feels like I’m being bruised deep down and it feels like raw burning at the entrance. Something it presses on my bladder and then i feel like I have to pee for a few hours after. I itch almost every day now. The only thing that gives me a bit of relief is ice. My gyno thinks I may have endometriosis as well as a vestibular issue. She ruled out infection. She also ruled out it being an inflammation issue by giving me a strong steroid gel that didn’t work at all. She decided that it could be a nerve issue so I’ve been on 10mg of amitriptyline for 3 weeks. I have not noticed a difference at all and am in the middle of a bad flare up. I was going to physical therapy for a while and am about to start again. I do a lot of stretches and use my pelvic wand. I just feel like it’s always irritated and raw down there and it makes it hard to get through the day or think of other things. I feel like I may be stuck with this forever. Any success stories or advice on any of this? I just feel so sad. I’m engaged and so in love with my fiance and obviously sex isn’t everything but I feel like I’m missing a key part of myself by having to fear sex and plan so much for it(planning doesn’t even help the pain much). I am a runner and sweating always makes this flare up.

reddit.com
u/Funny-Lynx-5105 — 1 month ago

Posting bikini pics while in a relationship is disrespectful

I think posing in a sexy way half naked and posting it for other people to see is disrespectful to your partner. My partner never asked me to, but I deleted every bikini photo once we started dating. Every relationship is different and people have different standards and comfort levels but this is just my hot take.

Just to be clear, I am the woman in the relationship and I personally felt like it was disrespectful for me to keep those types of photos up. He never asked me to delete anything, this is more of a personal boundary for myself. I knew what kind of attention I wanted when I posted those things and I’m very honest with myself.

reddit.com
u/Funny-Lynx-5105 — 2 months ago

People who are picky eaters are worse than those who aren’t.

I’m not talking about people with arfid or some kind of phobia like that’s legit but people who only eat chicken tenders and fries typically very annoying people. I think it’s rooted in the fear of having an unpleasant experience which is just a weak, victim mentality. I’ve definitely tried foods that I didn’t think I would like and found that I was correct and lived to tell the tale. It’s really not so bad. It’s like any new thing in life, you can’t knock it till you try it. The fear of trying and experiencing new things will hold you back and make you unpleasant to be around.

reddit.com
u/Funny-Lynx-5105 — 2 months ago

People who are picky eaters are worse than those we aren’t.

I’m not talking about people with arfid or some kind of phobia like that’s legit but people who only eat chicken tenders and fries typically very annoying people. I think it’s rooted in the fear of having an unpleasant experience which is just a weak, victim mentality. I’ve definitely tried foods that I didn’t think I would like and found that I was correct and lived to tell the tale. It’s really not so bad. It’s like any new thing in life, you can’t knock it till you try it. The fear of trying and experiencing new things will hold you back and make you unpleasant to be around. I meant to say “who” instead of “we” in the title and was notified by a fan.

reddit.com
u/Funny-Lynx-5105 — 2 months ago