Is this situation strange? M34 F34
Been with my gf about 10 months. Lately she’s just more and more distant but claims she’s creating “boundaries.” Well I thought I saw her texting another guy a few months ago and was gaslit to believe I saw it wrong. Still don’t know but assuming. Last night she was on the phone and the way she was talking just sounded like it was with a guy and likely sending Airbnb links(best I can guess cause I heard pricing). I walked into the room and she says a few times “I’m on the phone. I’m on the phone” and as I got closer to her phone laying on the bed she covered the screen and pulled it to her chest. She then started yelling and saying how I don’t trust her and she should just leave now, etc. I get conflicted because she always has good reasons for things bringing me into her life with friends/family but never shares personal stuff with me, stresses, etc again under “boundaries.” Just want to get some other takes.