u/Fuzzy_End_8986

This is the female half of our couple, and I have to say, it is so hard to find attractive, fit and clean men in the scene. The women are absolutely gorgeous! So many of them take time for their appearance and also take time to pick a nice outfit. The men are often sloppy with big bellies, grotesque toenails, no effort in outfit and look like they haven’t cared to work out in years. Why is there such low effort in the majority of men? My spouse and I both work hard to be an evenly matched fit and attractive couple but have yet to find this in others. We even live on the west coast where people usually take fitness more seriously.