I am attempting to avoid cowboys, and people that have done no reading about polyamory.. When I date new people in the future, I am going to ask them these questions.
-what is a triad?
-what is a metamour?
-what is kitchen table polyamory? How is it different from parallel polyamory?
-what is poly fidelity?
-What is the difference between polyamory and swinging? Being poly vs being a swinger.
-what is a primary?
-what is solo polyamory?
-what is hierarchical vs non-hierarchical polyamory?
-In general, how do people work through jealousy? (Short summary) What did you do to work through jealousy?
-is it possible to cheat while in a poly relationship? If so, give a possible example.
-why do you want to be polyamorous?
-name the title of 2 books about polyamory. Can be any. (Whether you read them or not. Just to see if you can bare minimum NAME two books.)
edit: im aware that someone can be both poly and a swinger. But some people equate the two