Went through breakup and lost my job
So my ex broke up with me in April, it was not a messy breakup. We were just incompatible and weren’t meeting each other’s needs and hurting each other in a way. I do have a strong suspicion that she had an emotional affair with an co worker, but I don’t know for sure.
I have been in no contact since may, but I wrote a final message to her two days ago (wanted to return some items too) and said my goodbye again, no response till this day which kinda hurts. But it is what it is.
It’s just after the breakup I lost my job and I have been sitting alone in my house most days, not having any energy to do anything and just missing her. My new job starts in July, so I’ll have to survive this for a weeks. I want her to get out of my head, because I know deep down she wasn’t right for me. I have been going to the gym, journalling my thoughts, but it still feels like I can’t let things go and it’s breaking me a little.
I just want this feeling to be over, I shouldn’t feel this way about a person who left and probably doesn’t care about me anymore. If anyone went through this and can help a little, that would be great. You can also private message me if you want. I just need people to talk to.