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Un-DS'd my Vomero 5 Designed by Japan's today
One of the biggest errors people make in dating is mistaking or confusing interest...vs being interested enough.
When I was younger I used to feel like I was always begging for a woman's time on dates. It constantly felt like pulling teeth to get women out on dates, to communicate to put in basic effort. My initial reaction after years of this was "they just aren't interested" but often it's not quite that simple, the truth is, a lot of times people aren't interested ENOUGH.
And this is the trap. You think "I can do more" or that if you just try harder, that they will come around. They won't. People will go out on dates with you, let you spend your time, your money and your energy, they will have sex with you but just...not come close to the level of interest you have in them and you putting in more effort to compensate for what they aren't providing won't make that better.
It's important to make the distinction. If your effort is not being matched and you are constantly questioning their interest, but they still RESPOND to messages and still seem eager to meet up, even if they never initiate anything with you...they probably don't like you all that much. It does not always matter if someone like you...it's about whether they like you enough for it to move the needle for you. You have to decide if that's enough for you, and let me tell you, if you really think about it most times...it won't be.
Just my opinion.