AITH for allowing my in laws to stay maximum one month in our apartment?
We live in Switzerland, and my husband is Australian so he hardly gets to see his parents who live in Brisbane which I feel for him. They are a close family and lovely people.
Last year they stayed with us for 5 weeks, I was never asked if this was OK, which at the time I did not think much of it until after the stay. They are lovely and easy people and help to cook and clean etc. however me and my husband have busy stressful jobs.
I am an introvert, who is also a bit OCD with cleaning and my home is a safe space to recharge and get alone time.
So this year our first baby is due in October and I said to my husband the absolute maximum amount of time they can stay is 1 month. I felt he was slightly saddened by this and then I felt bad. But we will have a newborn and I’m super nervous about being all day at home with them while he is at work with the sleepless nights and stress of it.
My dream would be max 2-3 weeks but with Australia I feel bad. Am I the aashole for putting a maximum on a month stay?
Last time during the 5 weeks my husband had 2 work trips away so I was left alone with them also which was unfair because I was left to host alone.
Thank you so much for your advice.