u/Gabrielle_0o0

I'm finally at 10 hearts with Astarion, I really wanted him and my farmer to marry because I'd like them to live together and do all the marriage stuff, but I also would hate him to go through the marriage lobotomy.

Does he go through the same brainwashing the bachelors do?

I already have a few mods for after marriage (date night, date night redux, wandering spouses) because of a different modded NPC, but I'm still hesitant. I just don't want him to lose his personality 😅