u/Gabysxo

We have an 11 month old and I am now back at work full-time, as a couple we are struggling to manage both working full time, maintaining the house and looking after our baby without things slipping and resent building. I feel like I take on 90% of the workload, carried over from mat leave and honestly we need a frank conversation to save our marriage and my mental health asap. Can anyone recommend any resources I can use to help list everything I do and then to work together to allocate tasks? I feel like if I give concrete and written instructions, then I have literally done all I can in asking for help (which I realise I shouldn’t be having to do). THANK YOU!