Middle aged 45yo guy needs advice about girlfriends anus paranoia!
I'm a 45yo UK guy. Amicably divorced for 7 years. Since divorce, I've found the real me, found confidence, and the passion and love I have for sex.
New 42yo girlfriend for 4 months. I really like her. Sex is good. But just good. I know how it could be amazing. But I respect her as a woman. Which is leaving me frustrated some what.
The one thing, and we've spoken about anal sex and it's not for her, and I respect that. Don't care if we never have anal. But she won't let me even see her anus. She insists on doggy in total darkness. Will not 69. I so badly want to. Could not adore her body more. But I'm at the point where I'll feel bad for even bringing it up.
Do I simply accept this, deep down remaining frustrated, or how do I go about addressing the situation with her?