Ok so I (19m) are kinda at a loss rn, and idk what to say to my Fiance (25m)
So my fiance is kinda bad with finances, he takes care of his grandma and pays 500 in rent a month so its not a huge deal but most recently one of his friends needed money for a new PC (about 600) I told him no, he had previously asked for my advice because ive taken a few years of finance classes so he asked me about big purchases like this before. I told him that his friend had plenty of shit they could pawn or they could work extra hours (their friend claimed they might get a spinal injury working extra hours, even if thats so i dont see why we should be helping with non essentials) i have later found out that they did infact send that money without my knowledge (their friend told me because they felt bad about it and thought it was the right thing to do) I have literally nobody to talk to about this and hes asleep rn, I have no fucking clue what to do and I want this to work I really do, but I feel like hes completely ignored what I said and doesnt take me seriously. So what do I say or do?