u/GaryLou_2019

My husband & I have 2 beautiful daughters. They are 16 months apart. We are both very happy with our 2 babies. My husband is open to 1 more baby, but would be happy if we just stayed a family of 4. My heart is happy, but doesn’t seem complete yet. We both have well paying jobs but at times, things can still seem tight. We live close to family, all within 20 mins, and they are such a huge help. My fear is we add one more baby, and really strap ourselves financially. Not able to do couple vacations or take our kids on vacations. I want to be able to give my kids a great childhood and make memories as a family. But I also fear that in 20, 30, 40 years, am I going to look back and regret not having another baby?!