u/Gavinrealgamer

My girlfriend of five months has always been into romance books like Wildfire or Icebreaker and these include explicit topics everybody seems to think that I shouldn’t mind because she enjoys it and she gets ideas where I eventually benefit from it. But I’m not that kinda guy I feel like I’m being compared to these books and I feel like I’m not enough for her sometimes in addition she also has a couple niche celebrity crush’s and she idealizes them so much it makes me insecure about myself, this is too no fault of her own and I feel like bringing this up would make her feel bad about herself and I don’t want that, I hate the way I feel. What do I do?