please help me about my situationship
Problem/Goal: My ka-situationship is getting inconsistent. I need advice.
Context:
Hi! I'm in a situationship with someone for almost a month. We do weekly meet ups and stuffs. Na-coconcern lang ako sa mga ginagawa nya after a week of getting to know with each other kasi hindi na sya ganun as they was nung una. They keep telling me na lagi syang nakakatulog, which is very understandable pero kasi grabe na yung kada oras natutulog nalang sya. I feel sad and disappointed kasi hindi na nya ako kinakausap like before.
Btw, binigay ko na lahat sa kanya—pera (kasi umuutang sya sakin), and gamit ko. I even took care of his cat kasi kitten pa lang and may pusa silang malaki kaya natatakot daw sya na may mangyaring di maganda. Ako na gumastos lahat ng needs ng kuting nya. Binalewala ko yung sinabi ni ate sakin na dapat bayaran daw ng may-ari lahat ng binili ko kasi alam ko sa sarili ko na mahal nya ako kahit di nya sinasabi sakin.
Alam mo yun, tinanggap ko pa rin sya sa buhay ko kahit na nakikipag-meet sya sa mga guys to do fun things and nagsusugal (hinalikan ko pa, and yes, sya ang first kiss ko). Nag-promise sya sakin na hindi na sya mag-eentertain ng iba, theyll do constant updates, and magiging honest. But im afraid na nag-eentertain na sya ng iba kasi they keep following guys sa mga socials nya (sana hindi huhu).
Previous attempts: I tried chatting them about things na nabobother ako kaso its either tulog sya or mag-cchat sya pero hindi nya sasagutin tanong ko. Hindi ko masabi sa kanya personally kasi im not strong enough to tell them those. Baka kasi iiwanan nya lang ako. Im slowly getting tired of it na, kaya please help me. I dont wanna lose them in my life.