u/GazelleTimely5051

Me and my husband have been together for 10 years now and been married for about 5 of those years. We have two beautiful children and I find myself thinking I want more from this. He has never been the romantic, lovey, super affectionate type. And that’s what I always wanted. We became friends first and then found ourselves to be great together and became exclusive. We have had our ups and downs and I have always expressed this but nothing really ever changed. Now we’re 10 years later and I am yearning for it. Wanting my husband to mention when I look beautiful. Picking a date for us and not making me choose as usual. Not being indecisive and making plans. Being affectionate towards me as much as possible. And he has never really been that way. Things have been rocky for us before but we are great and things are great. I get that life happens when you have children, but I ache for something more and I don’t know what to do about it.