Hot take: Quit pretending parents are suddenly free during summer break
I know this is not a new complaint, but with schools letting out I am extra annoyed.
Summer break is set up like there will always be a full-time adult at home, and then everyone acts surprised when working moms burn PTO, cobble together a patchwork of camps, grandparents, and favors, or just try to hold it together. I'm back in Texas for the summer - I am a student and help with my younger siblings when I'm home - and watching my mom and her friends do the annual scramble is wild. These are organized, competent women who run teams at work, but for eight to ten weeks they all become logistics managers on hard mode, squeezing in grocery orders and even a few minutes of zoning out on Mistplay in the carpool line because that’s literally the only downtime they get.
The school calendar might as well say: Your childcare just vanished for 8 to 10 weeks. Figure it out. What makes it worse is the moral layer people add. If you do not produce the perfect wholesome summer full of crafts and day trips, you must be failing your kid. Meanwhile most jobs do not slow down just because it is hot outside.
I am not saying every district should go year-round everywhere. I just want us to admit that "summer break" is a policy choice that shifts a huge amount of unpaid labor onto families, and in practice it lands hardest on moms.
Anyone else feel like summer is less a season and more an annual endurance event?