today, i moved my dad into the memory care facility someone recommended
By the end of the day, my dad was exhausted from all the unfamiliar faces and introductions. Since he’s still mostly unaware of what this transition truly means, it wasn’t an emotional or dramatic goodbye. On my way out, one of the staff members gave me a hug, and I realized then how much I needed it.
We showed him his room and where all his things were, even knowing he probably won’t remember any of it tomorrow. We toured the activity room, had lunch together, and spent as much time with him as we could. He was quiet most of the day.
When I kissed him goodbye, he asked if I’d be picking him up later. I told him, “Tomorrow.”
I wasn’t fully prepared for how heavy this would feel.
I’m trying to take care of myself too. I’m meeting my best friend later today, and I have plans this weekend so I’m not sitting alone with all of these emotions.
I know this is the beginning of a very different journey, one I’m largely navigating without my siblings. That’s why I’m especially grateful for this community. Everything I’ve learned here, along with all the kindness and support, has helped me more than I can express over these past months.
thanking every one for there help and support :