u/Gelibean27

So I (28/F) had trouble figuring out what to get my dad (53) for his birthday this year. He has a a bunch of merch and toys of many shows he used to watch growing up, Mazinger, Star wars, He man and so much more. I just came to realize he doesn't own anything Star Trek, his favorite show and when I go see him that's what he's always watching. Problem is I don't know much about the show and asking him would give it away. So my fellow redditors. Could you help me pick a ST space gun, that he would love? Is there an Iconic one? These 2 are my options I know he would love it either way but would like to make it extra special picking a good one. He went ballistic jumping excited over Mazinger legos I found for him. He's about to be 53 this year. Would love to go big this year!

I am between a blue gun named (type 2 phaser) OR a shiny silver (Shark)

Thanks for any recomendations and opinions would be so helpful to help me make a choice🖖🏼

Hello! Me(28) and my bf(30) of 9 years are both on the same page of not ever having kids. Yesterday, we did the deed, caught in the moment he finished inside with a condom. We always been safe and use a condom to avoid unwanted pregnancies, so, last night when we finished he noticed the condom slipped off and he was pulling out, but doesn't know when since he lost all feeling. There was a big mess on the bed including the condom, we did not go to bed all night panicking what could of happened. At 6:30am we left for the closest Walgreens to buy a Plan B as fast as we could. I am irregular still haven't gotten my period from stress about work and life this month, I've had very few cramps this month.

So yes, my bf told me IUD has a 99% chance of preventing pregnancies BUT i have heard HORROR stories from how bad the pain is. I am also PETRIFIED of gynecologist, I haven't been to one in 4 years since my last appointment which made me very uncomfortable. I didn't find it the need to go back since I am healthy and I just DON'T want to.

So my question is this, IS the plan b enough? Should I take another one in 5 days? Should I go do the IUD? Or should I wait the whole month to buy a pregnancy text and if possitive got get an abortion? I'm genuinely scared and want no kids, bf has been sweet and supportive is any decision I make. Please, any advice would be nice appretiated and some experiences that could guide me on what should I do.