I had an argument/fight with my coworker and don't know how I am supposed how to feel with it
(I am not a native english speaker, sorry for the mistakes) Also , I'm a 26 yo guy
I have been a year working with him and despite knowing that he is very foul mouthed I never had any problem with him (46yo)
This friday when there were only 20 minutes left to go home, i went on an argument with my coworker.
It was a very stupid reason i think but is still botherin me
When is was preparing to clean, my other coworker told not to do so and to find something else to do for 5 min (not this coworker) so I went to do the paperwork about what I did that day.
For context we work on a workshop/garage so there and with the music and the the machines there is a lot pf noise, plus I had a mask at that moment and my coworker uses an airpod on the ear.
He told me to not do the paperwork, that I should do that at the end of the day before leaving, he was at 3 meters from me but I thought I should speak a bit loud because of what I already said (the mask and the noise and airpo, he was also using a machine at that moment). "My other coworker told me to kill time for 5 minutes so I'm doind this!". After this he turned around and told me aloud "Dont speak to me like that!". I replied "Do not yell at me!"
And he said againd "I am not yelling!" So then i realiced he was not trying to pick a fight but to tell me that i was the one that i was yelling, for no reason when he could hear me without speaking aloud, after realising my mistake I told him "Oh sorry, I apologize to you"
After apologising and specting this stupid scenario to end, he then said the next "You treat me with respect", wich in my opinion I more or less always did, he then followed that sentence with "asshole"
It did impacted me, because this may be how he really sees me but at the same time it made me a lot of fun, how could you expect someone to treat you with respect after you call them "asshole"?
Anyways after that i proceeded to clean, then tried talk to him 3 min later only to be replied with "Get lost" and when asking if that part of the garage was clear i got a "are you blind?"
This guy is 46yo, but why does he has the pride of a king and acts like a 15 yo?
I will have to work with him again on monday and pretty shure he will still be pissed despite I apologizing. But no way I apologize again after being called asshole.
Honestly I don't even know of I need an advice maybe I am just venting my anger here, feel free to say your thoughts.