More power to Ruru
It's my own words but using chat gpt to articulate this. I have been watching splitsvilla for so many years but this time I just feel so much emotionally invested may be this trio drama remind me of my own past trauma so thought of writing it down because it is just mentally draining me.
I know many people might disagree with me, and honestly maybe Ruru is not completely innocent either. Maybe she also has flaws and has made mistakes like everyone else. But one thing I genuinely feel is that she has a kind heart. The way she loves, gets attached emotionally, and reacts to situations feels very real to me. I feel she is the type of person who loves deeply and stays loyal emotionally, and maybe that’s why her pain felt so visible. I think that’s also the reason why I relate to her situation on a very personal level.
Imagine being in a relationship where you gave your everything to someone. You changed yourself for them, supported them, loved them genuinely, and did things for them with complete loyalty. Then one day you realise that same person betrayed you for fame, attention, or another person. That kind of pain changes you emotionally.
I truly feel bad for girls who go through situations like this because I think Ruru was genuinely in love with him. She was lied upon not even for once her feelings were recognised . And honestly, I liked the way she reacted in that situation because it felt real. Yes, there are things she has done outside this matter that I personally didn’t support, and I won’t blindly defend everything. But in this particular situation, I can understand her pain completely.
People saying “they were just talking, it wasn’t cheating” probably don’t understand how emotional betrayal works. Cheating is not always physical. Sometimes the lies, secrecy, emotional attachment, and hidden conversations hurt even more.
Imagine being in a relationship and your partner’s friends already know how much you both love each other, but they still keep shipping your partner with someone else. Indirectly they are encouraging disrespect towards the relationship. Then there’s another girl who keeps using your partner’s name for sympathy and talks about things that could hurt your relationship. Later you find out your partner was talking to her too, and on top of that he admits he feels guilty for not choosing her. How is someone supposed to not feel betrayed after that?
You spend months investing your emotions, trust, and time into one person, only to realise they were hiding things from you. That betrayal stays with you for a long time. And honestly, I think that betrayal is much deeper than what many people are understanding.
Maybe the reason I feel so emotional about Ruru is because I’ve personally been in a similar situation. My partner once chose another girl because she was more popular and richer. The worst part was that people around me already knew, but I found out from someone else. I asked him multiple times, but he kept denying everything. That denial hurt me even more than the betrayal itself.
And the girl he chose never truly loved him either. She only wanted him because he was attractive and because she was jealous of me. Later she left him for someone else saying, “If you can leave her for me, you can leave me too.” In the end, he came back apologising and begging, but by then the damage was already done.
So yes, I know what it feels like to be in Ruru’s place, and I genuinely think she is emotionally very strong for handling all of this publicly. More power to her. I truly hope she finds someone who loves her honestly, chooses her completely, and never makes her question her worth again.
And for people who casually break trust and loyalty, life eventually teaches everyone the value of sincerity and real love.