What pronouns should I use?
I don't identify with any gender or any pronoun.
And no I'm not agender, I'm simply nothing, but it's hard to explain that without having to explain everything, especially when I'm asked what my preferred pronouns are. I could say they/them since it's technically gender neutral, but it doesn't feel right. Binary pronouns like he and she feel even worse even though I publicly go by she/her which I do just to avoid having this conversation with people.
I could see myself accepting the pronouns ze/zir being used when referring to me, but I also know most people wouldn't use it. Maybe not out of ignorance but they would either not get it or just forget and use she/her anyway. For context, I was born female and have been called she/her for most of my life (except for the times when I wanted to see what it would feel like to use other pronouns).
I could just tell people to refer to me by name only but that also feels off, not only grammatically but in general. I'm not even sure if my name is something I want to be called so to only be called it and nothing else feels wrong.
How do I tell people this without writing a paragraph?