I fucking hate how filthy my house is. Any advice would mean alot thank you.(Sorry for any grammer mistakes I'm not great at spelling)
It's not just like "oh excuse the mess" and it's some dishes and unfolded laundry here and there. It's genuinely like one of those cleaning messy homes reality tv shit where it's litterly a biohazard. For context my I live with my mum and she's had 5 children (4 of them still live here including me, one has moved away and there all older than me). I understand that cleaning may seem like a lot for that many people and it is but the level that this house has got to is insane, my mother has a lot of mental health issues and I can definitely empathise with that. However in my eyes that's no excuse to raise your children in a waste land.
There's a massive fly problem, we used to have maggets almost everywhere but lucky we have sorted that (after about 5 years). Rotting moldy food stacking in every room. The bathrooms are so gross, there was a slug in my shower, mold, dead flys stuck to the ceiling. I was about to take a shower when I saw the slug and I just got so mad that's why I made this post. My garden don't even get my started, there's a gazeebo full of moldy rotten and broken things beacuse the house got to messy so lost of clothes, sentimental items and storage has been ruined. When we had a dog before she sadly died there was dog shit probably like 100 on average. The poor dog, know body walked her (I could because I was too young and she's a big dog). One room is just completely full of crap and the lounge is half full of a stack so high to the sealing of tatty crap.
The house stinks like cat piss and shit. Me and my siblings haven't been taught hygiene at all and my mum stinks so bad I hate being near her fur that reason. I didn't brush my teeth at all as a child and now even though I have very good hygiene my teeth are stained yellow. I'm not even going to get into the amount of neglect as a child as well as emotional.She didn't teach us how to tidy or look after our body's. We just ate unhealthy food and we still do, like maccys everyday which is so sicking. I'm not at the age where I can buy my own food or move out. I've been back and forth between my dad's house and his house is 10x better in the cleaning sence but I won't get into why I don't stay with him full time. I try to keep my room clean I would say it's far better than the rest of the house, it makes me so sad because I can't have my boyfriend or friends round. It's so embarrassing.
To be fair the house is a bit better but still horrible.I just don't know what to do anymore it makes me so sick.
I doubt anyone will genuinely read all of this but like any tips or if anyone that relates please give me some advice or your welcome to share similar experiences.
Edit: I will not be calling social services because they are useless and have caused more harm than good. My dad is not abusive in any way don't worry but we have a complicated relationship. Also I understand and am well aware that this is not the norm, it's my life and I'm living in it. Please don't be horrible, I understand constructive criticism but I won't tolerate straight rudeness because I did not choose to be raised this way.