u/GeneralAddress2614

This is so pathetic to me. I can't believe I am even wrtiting this.

So its middle of the night here in Europe and my girlfriend wakes me.up because the window is broke.

I get out of bed, and as I am stretching to fix the window I farted. I told my GF to stand on the other side of the room because of this (she was just stood staring at me huffing and puffing because of the window).

She then shouted at me, started crying and has gone to sleep on the sofa because "I farted in her face".

I said "You act as if I did it on purpose", she just ignored me. I'm so tempted to just leave and head back to my own place tommorow morning. There has been a number of scenarios now where I feel she has made something out of nothing and created a false victim narrative in her own head, rather than speak to me she just walks off crying.

The other day she misread a message I wrote and screamed at me, when I told her to read it again, she just buggered off crying. She also shouted at me ladt week after asking me a hypothetical question because she didn't like my answer. I was very ill the other week, raised temperature, very bad sweats. My body was literally dripping in sweat and she came home from work and started trying to say I am dirty etc, then just walked off crying when I explained that I am clearly falling ill and showed her my temperature reading.

It feels like such a daft situation but this may be the straw that broke the camels back.

I was hit by a stolen car and started to lose my vision and had brain leaks. At the time I was employed for 1 year and 11 months. I have screenshot etc; of every complaint I make below btw.

My manager said I was lying about losing vision, something about anti-glare bulbs.

My manager said I fabricated the crash and Neurologist notes because I am "scared of work".....My company recovers stolen cars, guess who recovered the on that hit me?

Another manager said they rejected my notes because the "injuries aren't that bad"......this contradicts what my Neurologist says.

They also said that being hit by a stolen car is a "Lifestyle choice".

I went to OH. They advised on reduced hours. My manager didn't say anything and didn't put me on reduced hours.

I was then threatened with court action as I am no longer able to do my.job due to sustained injuries (You know the ones I lied about, I did such a good job they refused to believe in any injuries).

HR said I can work from home, my manager put me on a disciplinary for doing so.

I was then told I would be put on a PIP, no follow-up was made. I never went on the PIP but I have also never been told I wouldn't be on a PIP. They just left me worrying about it.

The person who told me I would go on a PIP mentioned my medical issues which I assumed to be confidential. I had never spoke to this person in my life prior to this.

They mention this time period in disciplinaries etc. When I respond with the reason why my work may have been down due to them taking the piss, they say its "irrelevant". Why bring it up then?

I have been asking for the same resources as my colleagues, I have been ignored multiple times yet I am still held to the same standards as them.

I was suspended from work. No reason given. I was expected to defend myself without knowing why and giving me no time to prepare...I did so successfully, No further action was their decision and they said I had a lack of resources.

Since then my work has failed to attend a few meetings which they scheduled. 2 were booked on a weekend and a bank holidays. Those 2 were then rescheduled and still nobody attended I was left waiting.

They then referred me to a physiotherapist. I asked why, because they previously ignored the OH, my Neurologists, GP and Podiatrists see no need for a physio and I also mentioned that I don't think my medical issues are confidential I was ignored by the manager.

The physio failed to attend the meeting they scheduled also.

I'm cracking up guys. I went to work with a fucking hole in my head and its been nothing but shit. I am beginning to get very angry.