I’m 21 and started dating this girl for the first time, at first I was really excited but now I don’t know. A part of me thinks I’m just really overwhelmed. I’m a very big introvert and used to only want to go hand out with people every couple months. Now I’m seeing her and texting her constantly and half of me feels like hanging out with her and texting is almost like a chore. I don’t know if it’s because I’m not interested or I’m just tired.
I try to think of it logically, and ask myself if it’s not her, would I like to go out with anyone right now, and the answers no. I’m not even really responding to other people that text me or want to go out. I don’t know what I’m supposed to feel like in this situation. All the stories I always hear about relationships, people are so head over heels for each other and want to spend every waking moment. But I don’t feel like that, am I not cut out for a relationship? Is it her? Is it me? I don’t know.