u/General_Plenty_891

I am not serious

When I talk to people on Grindr, I often feel they aren't really my type. However, I keep chatting because I feel bored, which eventually leads to me agreeing to meet them. I think I agree to these meetings out of a desire for excitement, and then I feel bad about letting them down or telling them they aren't my type.
I also feel like I want to be intimate like other bottoms my age, but I don't feel comfortable meeting these specific people. Even when I do find someone who is my type, I get scared that they might be fake or that their pictures aren't real or maybe they only want to meet to hurt me and steal my things. I feel confused and I hate that I keep doing this. It makes me question if I even belong to the LGBT community at all.

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u/General_Plenty_891 — 9 days ago