I'm getting divorced after 11 years together

I'm getting divorced after 11 years together

Baked chicken, potatoes, and green beans. (Yes I know it's ugly, but it's delicious) I accidentally made the same dinner tonight that I did on the night of my first post. Thankfully I had my toddler sharing the meal with me this time ❤️

I'm not sure if anyone remembers my last post, but I can share the link if you're interested. I've been talking with my husband about our relationship since then, trying to explain how I feel and ask for his opinion. The consensus is that he believes everything is fine and I know that it's not.

This morning he asked if I wanted a divorce, and I said yes. I still haven't found a job or been able to save any money up, but the weight that was lifted off of my chest when I said that made me feel like everything is figureoutable. I still love him and I'm heartbroken that my son won't grow up the way that I imagined he would, but I'm hoping now he'll have a healthy, happy mother to grow alongside him.

I don't think I'll ever get married again. We've been together since highschool and I'm terrified but also excited to be alone. Maybe that makes me a terrible person, but I think it's time I thought a little bit more about me for once.

Thank you everyone for the great advice on the last post.

https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlDinnerDiaries/s/qEBJi97RdI

u/General_Reflection63 — 7 days ago

Hello, I've got beautiful dinner plate hibiscus that I inherited from the previous home owners. I'm just looking to see if anyone has advice on how to remove the grass and weeds growing between the stems. Also any tips on preventing this next Spring would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!

Added some photos of them in bloom last year for tax. I just kind of let them do their thing usually, but any tips to make them more full/healthier are also appreciated!

u/General_Reflection63 — 1 month ago
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Hello, I've got beautiful dinner plate hibiscus that I inherited from the previous home owners. I'm just looking to see if anyone has advice on how to remove the grass and weeds growing between the stems. Also any tips on preventing this next Spring would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!

u/General_Reflection63 — 1 month ago

Tips appreciated for window herb garden

Hello, I planted all of these on March 3rd and here is the growth so far! The first month they grew so fast but since then they've been at a standstill (mostly my oregano). I started using some very diluted liquid fertilizer about once a week and that seems to help. First time growing herbs so please let me know if you think I've messed something up or if I should just be patient and stop rushing them. Thank you!

u/General_Reflection63 — 1 month ago

Help diagnose my baby snake plant?

I've had a snake plant for about 3 months now and, miraculously, it's doing pretty well (second picture). The pot was getting a bit crowded and I repotted and separated two sprouts from the base of my main plant. I gave one to an equally rookie-with-houseplants friend and she's stressed. I'm 100% sure this is just user error but I'm not skilled enough to tell her what we're doing wrong.

Any tips are appreciated!

u/General_Reflection63 — 1 month ago